"how can one know a good moment without living a bad moment" as my favorite philosophy teacher once told me, and therefore, Happiness.
what is happiness? of course it only differs on the individual, or beholder (just like beauty). But happiness changes in each other. thinking you want something/one at one point evolves into something different in one point. MATURITY KICKS IN (something i have not tamed).
Now, why would we think that getting through is everything? discouraging sadness is losing another side of oneself.
i'm off and all over the place.... AND I'M HUNGRY.........as usual. (don't judge.... ok maybe just s smidgen)